I just came back from my cousin’s wedding in North Carolina. It was certainly an intersting experience. For the first time in my life, I was exposed to a church wedding. Kinda scary, but nonetheless educational.

As I was coming back on the plane ride and trains, I realized how I almost didn’t go. If I didn’t go, I would have missed out on a lot. Aside from the actual wedding, I had a great time. For example, the first night, we met up my cousin at a small club and were there pretty late.

I didn’t realize it buy I actually got drunk. It wasn’t as bad as I thought. I was with good company, everyone I trusted, so it was actually quite fun. But, still, won’t be doing that again. It was one of those things that you do once in your life, and you’re good to go.

Just as I probably will never go into a church ever again. Not my cup of tea. Well, I don’t even like going to a Jain temple, so makes sense. But the point is that I would have missed out on my meeting my cousins, my aunts, and uncles.

I would have missed on seeing one of my other cousin’s huge property. I would have missed out on staying in a hotel room. I would have missed out on lots of good Indian food. And I would have missed out on the garba.

So, anyways all I’m saying is that I feel like I am missing out on a lot by not being more out going. I have lots of opportunities to do “stuff” that I just don’t take. I should take them. But more importantly, I’ve been just sitting around for the most part waiting for something to happen.

I need to be even more proactive in achieving my dreams.